They say that a persons eyes are a window into their soul.
When I said "I do" the first time around I relied on my trusty list. You know the list of logical - unemotional things I shared in common with my Ex. The list I thought guaranteed a good match in marriage. What I never took into account was if we had an emotional connection.
Those feelings you can't seem to find the words to write down on a piece of paper or verbalize to others. How special or not special it felt when your eyes were locked in on his. The eye connection telling another side to your story without words. It would be a number of years later before I experienced The "Eyes" Have It connection and realized it's contribution to the success of my Marriage A Second Time Around.